NC State is a big place, and it can feel overwhelming to someone who is not familiar with it.
\u2014 Kerri Fowler, director of the Parents and Families Services office<\/p><\/div><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
In addition to the email and phone Helpline, the office also provides newsletters and blog posts with information designed for parents, including a Conversation Calendar with monthly talking points for parents to drum up discussions with their sometimes-reticent students.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And it\u2019s the organizer of events, including Parents and Families Weekend, Spring Fling and First in the Pack\u2009\u2014\u2009designed for first-generation college students and their families\u2009\u2014\u2009that aim to give parents a glimpse of campus life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Student workers serve as what the office calls parent allies, answering Helpline questions, participating in events and providing a student\u2019s perspective. It\u2019s easy to read about student parking online, for example\u2009\u2014\u2009but hearing from a student who went through the process to secure a spot can provide additional insight, says Brianna Marquinez \u201922. \u201cFacts are going to be the facts, but sometimes getting that personal insight is going to be a little bit more helpful,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As the pandemic bore down in spring 2020, the office regularly sent out university messages and updates to parents as classes went online and students were sent home. \u201cI realized we couldn\u2019t go quiet; it made people nervous,\u201d Fowler said. Virtual coffee chats were added along with a series of live Facebook conversations on topics like dining and student health.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fowler and her staff are fielding more questions from parents about mental health, a topic that parents previously had mentioned only on occasion. Just as rates of anxiety and depression rose on other U.S. campuses, NC State parents began stating their concerns more frequently and directly. \u201cWe have parents who are very open to calling and saying, \u2018I\u2019m worried about my student\u2019s mental health,\u2019\u201d Fowler says. Staff directs them to on-campus mental health resources.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The office is making a difference for parents. \u201cDespite the fact that there are young adults milling about, there are helpers at that school,\u201d says Ann Jeffrey-Wilensky, whose son graduated in May and who has been a regular participant in the office\u2019s virtual coffee chats.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The office\u2019s reach is expanding with the launch of Pack Family Regions, developed with out-of-state students in mind. Parents of current students serve region-ally as points of contact\u2009\u2014\u2009answering questions and holding local events in North Carolina and across the country.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jim Skotthy, of Lexington, N.C., whose older son graduated from NC State in 2017 and younger son will graduate in May 2023, first got involved with the office during a coffee chat. Today, he\u2019s a parent ambassador and works with the Pack Family Regions program. Parents are sometimes skeptical of official university responses, he says. That\u2019s what makes the connections the office is building even more important. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cIf a parent says, \u2018Hey, look, no this is really true,\u2019\u201d he says, \u201cit certainly makes them feel a whole lot better.\u201d <\/p>\n"},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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